Shanghai Friendship: Expat's Guide to Making Friends in China

Is it easy to make friends as a foreigner in China? 🇨🇳 Q+A ft. @melissa_renee #shanghai

Destination:ChinaCity:ShanghaiPopulation:24.9 million
Is it easy to make friends as a foreigner in China? 🇨🇳 Q+A ft. @melissa_renee #shanghai
Expat Natt2023-11-189 min

Planning on moving to China? Worried about making friends when moving abroad: look no further! Today I am joined by my good friend and fellow creator Melissa to answer some of your questions about making friends as an adult in China. Whether you are planning on moving to China or living abroad, making friends as an adult can be hard. Throw in the language barriers and culture shock and it’s an overwhelming experience. Sit down with us and talk with us in this podcast style Q+A. Of course it wouldn’t be an expatnatt vlog without some café vlog and daily vlog style content at the end! Listen to our tips on how to make friends with local Chinese as a foreigner in China as well as other westerners and international students in Shanghai. If you have any questions about life in China or Shanghai, let us know in the comments. Thanks for watching! 你计划来中国发展吗?你还在担心如何交到新朋友吗?今天我会和我的好朋友兼YouTube创作者Melissa一起回答关于在中国的交友问题。

--- Expat Natt
November 18, 2023, Autumn in China

Video Chapters

  1. 0:00Coming Up
  2. 00:27Intro
  3. 01:29Is it easy to make friends in China?
  4. 02:59Do you see many foreigners in Shanghai?
  5. 03:52Is it hard to make friends with local Chinese people?
  6. 04:59AMWF Was it love at first sight?
  7. 05:15AMWF Language Barrier?
  8. 06:19How do you communicate with your Chinese in-laws?
  9. 07:19Daily vlog and cafe vibes

Expat Natt explores the joys and challenges of making friends in Shanghai, China, sharing heartwarming stories of cross-cultural connections and navigating daily life in a new country.

Travel Guides & Tips in this video

  1. Tip 1Utilize WeChat groups to connect with other expats and moms in Shanghai for easy socialization and finding dinner groups. (2:04)
  2. Tip 2Making friends with local Chinese people requires more patience and understanding of cultural differences. Be open-minded and willing to learn. (2:29)
  3. Tip 3Open-mindedness is key for both participants in a friendship, as relationships and friendships differ across cultures. Be understanding of cultural differences. (4:17)
  4. Tip 4Use the WeChat translation feature to overcome language barriers and communicate effectively with local people, even if you are sitting next to each other. (6:26)
  5. Tip 5Attend regular events such as pub quizzes to meet new people. These events offer a relaxed atmosphere and opportunities for social interaction. (9:28)

Expat Natt and her friend Melissa share their experiences and insights on making friends in China, tackling cultural differences and language barriers. They discuss the ease of connecting with other expats versus locals, highlighting the importance of open-mindedness and patience. Natt shares her personal journey, emphasizing the rewarding aspects of building cross-cultural friendships despite initial challenges. The vlog also offers a glimpse into daily life in Shanghai, showcasing both the vibrant café culture and the occasional unexpected closures.

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Is it easy to make friends as a foreigner in China? 🇨🇳 Q+A ft. @melissa_renee #shanghai

This video explores the question of whether it's easy to make friends in China, particularly as a foreigner. Expat Natt and her friend Melissa, offer diverse perspectives, given their differing backgrounds and experiences in Shanghai. Melissa, who works from home in a suburban area, finds connecting with other expats relatively easy, utilizing WeChat groups for socializing. However, building friendships with local Chinese people presents a more significant challenge. Natt, on the other hand, having spent five years immersed in Chinese culture, finds it easier to forge friendships with locals. She emphasizes the importance of open-mindedness, patience, and understanding cultural nuances. The conversation touches upon communication barriers, with Natt describing how she and her husband, Mew, initially overcame language difficulties through non-verbal cues and a commitment to learning each other's languages. WeChat, with its translation feature, is highlighted as a crucial tool for bridging communication gaps. The vlog also showcases a day in Shanghai, including a search for a café that ends up with a Subway lunch instead, adding a touch of realism to the experience. The video concludes with Natt attending a pub quiz, suggesting it as a fun way to meet new people. Overall, the video offers a balanced and insightful look at the complexities and rewards of making friends in a foreign country, emphasizing the importance of cultural sensitivity, open communication, and a willingness to embrace new experiences. Expat Natt's personal anecdotes and Melissa's complementary perspective make this a relatable and engaging watch for anyone considering moving to China or curious about expat life in Shanghai.

Shanghai Friendship: Expat's Guide to Making Friends in China

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Shanghai Expat Life: Making Friends & Navigating Culture

Expat Natt and Melissa discuss the challenges and rewards of making friends in China, particularly in Shanghai. They address common concerns for foreigners, such as language barriers and cultural differences, offering practical advice and insights gained from their experiences. The video also includes a Q&A session covering topics like meeting local Chinese people, interacting with in-laws, and navigating relationships as an international couple. The vlog concludes with a glimpse into their daily life in Shanghai, showcasing café visits and everyday moments.